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I Need a Dentist Who’s Less Anxious Than Me

November 22, 2015 by Diane

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I had a pain in one of my upper teeth on the left side. Thinking I may have developed a cavity—or worse, dislodged one of my mercury fillings and swallowed it—I phoned my dentist for an appointment.

“Doctor Lu’s office.”

I recognized the voice; it was Doctor Lu herself. She never hired a receptionist, so she pretends to be the receptionist.

“I may have lost a filling,” I said. “I need to make an appointment.”

“Doctor Lu can see you on Wednesday at two o’clock.”

Wait a minute. You’re Doctor Lu.

“Two o’clock will be fine.”

* * *

When I arrived, Doctor Lu was waiting behind the reception desk. She shuttled me into the yellow room on the left. She hooked a paper bib around my neck. She asked if I had any new allergies, wanted to know how I was sleeping and if I was taking any new medications, and inquired about my blood pressure. She took two x-rays and blew cold air on my teeth and jabbed at my fillings with a sharp implement and asked me to bite down on a piece of rubber and when nothing revealed itself to be a problem, she searched for one.

Starting with my neck.

Her fingers probed under my jawline and along my windpipe and then froze.

“Uh-oh,” she said. “You need to see a doctor ASAP.”

She probed some more. Dread flooded my body.

She motioned to her assistant. “How big is this?”

“I don’t know,” the assistant said. “The size of a penny?”

“That’s it! The size of a penny. Write that down.”

Doctor Lu probed some more, then handed me a mirror. “I want you to see this.” She pointed to a bulge in my neck.

“Oh, that!” I said. “That’s my carotid artery. I had it examined years ago. It’s just a weird part of my anatomy—“

“Write that down,” she said to her assistant. “Weird part of anatomy.”

“It’s nothing,” I babbled on, trying to reassure her. “I’m thinner now, so it’s more noticeable.”

“Yes. You have lost a lot of weight.”

“I wouldn’t say a lot—“

She turned her back and consulted a laptop on the counter. “Look at these x-rays,” she said, waving me over. I peered at the screen. “These fillings are old. See how close they are to the nerve?”


I knew what was coming. We’d had this discussion many times. Sure enough, “You need a mouth guard,” she said, her voice rising. “You’re grinding your teeth at night. If you lose one of these fillings, I don’t know what I’ll do. I won’t be able to FIX it. They’re too close to the NERVE!”

“Okay, okay. I’ll get a mouth guard.”



Total cost: $500 for the mouth guard, $10 for the visit.

“And see your doctor. Report back to me.”

I need a dentist who’s less of a hypochondriac than me.

* * *

I made an appointment with my doctor. Cost: $30. He felt the lump. He suggested that I get an ultrasound.

“But I’ve had this thing for ten years,” I said. “It’s never gotten any bigger. Isn’t it possible—isn’t it likely—that it’s fine?”

“That’s a good way to look at it,” he said. “But I want ENT to make that call. Schedule an appointment with ear-nose-throat. And schedule an ultrasound.”

I need a doctor who’s less worried than me.

* * *

Member services informed me that the ultrasound would cost $371.

“What’s the extra dollar for?” I wondered aloud.

I canceled the appointment.

* * *

Online, I checked the profile of the ENT doctor I was scheduled to see. He had started as a psychologist, then studied to be a surgeon. He also made time to become a photographer, canoeist, rock climber, wilderness guide, sculptor, sailor, chef, and sword-swallower. Okay, not the last one, but he had an impressive list of activities to his credit, in addition to raising three children, which he claimed was the most challenging activity of all. I felt good about this doctor. Maybe I could squeeze in a free therapy session while he examined my neck.

As the nurse led me down the hall to an exam room, we passed an open door. A man in a white lab coat sat at his desk wolfing down a sandwich, just shoving it in. God, I hope that’s not him, I thought.

It was.

Less than a minute later he strolled into the exam room where I sat perched on a giant leather chair. I wondered how he’d found time to chew.

He offered his unwashed hand for me to shake.

“So, you’ve got a lump in your neck,” he said. He placed his unwashed fingers on my throat. Felt the bulge. “That’s your carotid artery, “ he said. “Leave it alone.”

He pulled up a stool.

“Want a second opinion?” he asked.


“Nice glasses.”

Cost: $30.

I need a specialist who’s less goofy than me.

* * *

I went to the dentist to get my teeth checked. They’re fine. But I’m $570 more in debt. It would have been $941 if I’d gone through with the ultrasound.

I need a new dentist.


  1. Joan says:

    You do indeed! What a horrible ordeal! Love the humor in this piece…made me laugh!

  2. Bun Karyudo says:

    My goodness, it seems like you get charged at every turn. You’ve had to pay a ton of money to arrive at more or less the same place.

    Incidentally, I liked the graphic that accompanied this piece. Great to see that Spongebob’s less famous brother can still get work.

  3. Nancy Clark says:

    With so much medical knowledge at hand these days, no one person can absorb it all, so everyone specializes. As you so eloquently described it, Diane, we, the patients, get shuffled around from specialist to specialist, from test to test, and in the end may still not be any closer to knowing what the problem really is. Maybe in the future, we’ll be able to consult an all-wise computer that can analyze all the data at once and come up with a possible solution. Interesting possibility?

    • Diane says:

      Or we can consult our all-wise inner wisdom. Now wouldn’t that be something!

      I wouldn’t be surprised if computers take on the role of diagnostician.

  4. Jason says:

    I love the idea of Doctor Lu playing multiple roles to save money. I can imagine her practising the different voices, while browsing online scare stories about rare medical conditions. Great post, hope the pain in your tooth (and bank account) soon subsides.

  5. M.W. Thomas says:

    Two golf buddies, a dentist and a ENT doctor, decided to open a practice together. They debated what to call their new business. They kicked around some ideas. How about “Wax and Plaques,” said one. “Nah. Drums and Gums,” said the other. You know what they finally settled on? “Five Holes in One.”

    Thankfully, improvised jokes don’t have a copay.

  6. Marie Rogers says:

    So funny! And all true? I believe it.

  7. S.K. Lamont says:

    This sounds like a traumatic experience! I’ve never been a fan of dentists or doctors, so I would’ve probably cancelled all of my appointments 😉

  8. Marcie says:

    Sheesh! I’m so sorry you had to go through all that but really glad you shared it. Sadly, it was very funny. I followed you over from The Bloggess’ page. I like Stephanie Plum, too when I need light and fluffy. I’ve been thinking about going back for more of her, just to have a little escape for a while.

    • Diane says:

      Mystery, romance, and humor. What better escape than the escapades of Stephanie Plum and her wacky family?

      Thanks for visiting! Hope to see you ’round the doohickey again.

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